The title: I had a dream last night that I was with a friend dropping off her little boy at a childcare facility that keeps kids for extended stays. They lined the kids up and the caretakers yelled "Who loves you?" and they pointed to their parents and the parents said, "I do", and then vice versa. It was cute. I wonder do people do that somewhere. I think it would aide in separation anxiety.
Moving Right Along: I don't like to think about "love" very much in the boy/girl way, because it's always a really complicated thing and I don't understand it, but I had a really big revelation yesterday. I don't want to be in a relationship anytime soon, because I want to grow the love I have with God. I think when I'm in a relationship, I put a lot of pressure on the relationship to provide the happiness I need in my life. But if I can't be happy independently, how can I be happy with someone else. I've had this thought internally, but I never seen it as clear as I do now.
I honestly believe in a soul mate, and I think that if I met him now, he'd run. LOL. No seriously, he'd run, because I'm not ready. I'd be some big mess trying to figure out a career and life plan and my daily existence. With that said, I also don't want to date a guy that is a big mess. If I've got my stuff together he should too. I used to have this elaborate list of what type of guy I would date, but I came to a conclusion that a few core things that connect two people is all that's truly essential, well that plus mutual attraction of course. So my list is simply four things: Christian, Good Communicator, Creative, and Patient/Strong Personality. All these things compliment my personality in some way.
Christian, because if we believe the same thing at our very core, we can never be divided. We would always understand what we're working towards and the bigger picture of life.
Good communicator, because I'm not good at hints and I need people to make things plain for me all the time.
Creative, because it's both a part of my career plan and how I think in general. Plus I don't like to be bored.
Patient/Strong Personality ( I know that sounds like two, but they make sense, I swear), because I'm a bit difficult to deal with at times which takes patience, and if a guy has some sort of backbone, he can handle my sometimes aggressive joking and Leo personality.
I once met this couple that were so awesome. They spoke to each other with such sweetness and respect, it was mind-blowing, because that's not as common as it should be. They supported each other's goals and weren't lame boring people either. I think that's something I aim for in the future.
So, I'm putting this list in my back pocket until I'm like 25, my set age to start really dating. Until I'm stronger and right-minded. And that's all I have to say about that... giggity.
Moving Right Along: I don't like to think about "love" very much in the boy/girl way, because it's always a really complicated thing and I don't understand it, but I had a really big revelation yesterday. I don't want to be in a relationship anytime soon, because I want to grow the love I have with God. I think when I'm in a relationship, I put a lot of pressure on the relationship to provide the happiness I need in my life. But if I can't be happy independently, how can I be happy with someone else. I've had this thought internally, but I never seen it as clear as I do now.
I honestly believe in a soul mate, and I think that if I met him now, he'd run. LOL. No seriously, he'd run, because I'm not ready. I'd be some big mess trying to figure out a career and life plan and my daily existence. With that said, I also don't want to date a guy that is a big mess. If I've got my stuff together he should too. I used to have this elaborate list of what type of guy I would date, but I came to a conclusion that a few core things that connect two people is all that's truly essential, well that plus mutual attraction of course. So my list is simply four things: Christian, Good Communicator, Creative, and Patient/Strong Personality. All these things compliment my personality in some way.
Christian, because if we believe the same thing at our very core, we can never be divided. We would always understand what we're working towards and the bigger picture of life.
Good communicator, because I'm not good at hints and I need people to make things plain for me all the time.
Creative, because it's both a part of my career plan and how I think in general. Plus I don't like to be bored.
Patient/Strong Personality ( I know that sounds like two, but they make sense, I swear), because I'm a bit difficult to deal with at times which takes patience, and if a guy has some sort of backbone, he can handle my sometimes aggressive joking and Leo personality.
I once met this couple that were so awesome. They spoke to each other with such sweetness and respect, it was mind-blowing, because that's not as common as it should be. They supported each other's goals and weren't lame boring people either. I think that's something I aim for in the future.
So, I'm putting this list in my back pocket until I'm like 25, my set age to start really dating. Until I'm stronger and right-minded. And that's all I have to say about that... giggity.
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