The title: My best friend eats Wendy's, which is pretty lame. As bad a rep as McDonald's has gotten, let's face it, they still have the sweet tea and the better dessert menu. We went to McDonald's today and she tried to order and asked for a Junior Cheeseburger, which they don't sell. She caught herself and then asked for a Junior Bacon Cheeseburger, finally she got it right- Double Cheeseburger. It was funny to watch. This all could've been prevented if she just READ the menu. LOL.
Moving Right Along: When I was 18 I proposed to myself. I thought I had a great relationship with myself, so it would work out. Little did I know my relationship with myself needed a lot of work. There would be several times that I would break my own heart. I tried it again when I was 20 and finally once again a few months ago at 22. I can proudly say that I now not only love myself, but treat myself in a way that reflects that love.
Some people think it's really weird to propose to yourself. My -ex hated that I wore that ring. I guess he thought others would think we were engaged, but the ring is in fact pretty cheap and on my right hand, not the left. Anyway, I realized I had to think of myself as being in a relationship, because when you think about it, you really are. You think to yourself, you battle pros and cons in your head, you have opinions of yourself. You can be proud of yourself or angry at yourself, just like you can any other person.
I like wearing my ring, because it reminds me of all the promises I've made for myself. All the goals I told myself I'd accomplish. I pretty much promise myself to always believe in myself and never abandon my true self. I say all this to invite people to have expectations of themselves. Have a clearly defined layout of what you have to do for yourself to provide yourself a good life. What crap would you be willing to take from yourself (and for that matter, others as well)?
Make a commitment to yourself.
Moving Right Along: When I was 18 I proposed to myself. I thought I had a great relationship with myself, so it would work out. Little did I know my relationship with myself needed a lot of work. There would be several times that I would break my own heart. I tried it again when I was 20 and finally once again a few months ago at 22. I can proudly say that I now not only love myself, but treat myself in a way that reflects that love.
Some people think it's really weird to propose to yourself. My -ex hated that I wore that ring. I guess he thought others would think we were engaged, but the ring is in fact pretty cheap and on my right hand, not the left. Anyway, I realized I had to think of myself as being in a relationship, because when you think about it, you really are. You think to yourself, you battle pros and cons in your head, you have opinions of yourself. You can be proud of yourself or angry at yourself, just like you can any other person.
I like wearing my ring, because it reminds me of all the promises I've made for myself. All the goals I told myself I'd accomplish. I pretty much promise myself to always believe in myself and never abandon my true self. I say all this to invite people to have expectations of themselves. Have a clearly defined layout of what you have to do for yourself to provide yourself a good life. What crap would you be willing to take from yourself (and for that matter, others as well)?
Make a commitment to yourself.
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